Few artists are as easy on the ears as Norah Jones. She’s just so smooth.
Her simple, gentle song, “Come Away With Me,” is a great example of her handiwork. It drips with a longing to simply be together.
You should give it a listen.
Come away with me in the night Come away with me And I will write you a song
There is a rich dimension of marriage that resonates in me as I listen to this song. It is that realization that my beloved is indeed my safe place, my shelter from the chaos and strife of life. This relationship is my retreat.
When I listen to Ms. Jones sing these words, it’s the heart of my beloved that I hear whisper, “Come away with me…”
If you’re married, I hope you have that sense in your marriage as well. If you’re not married, don’t worry, there is a provision of this kind of retreat for you as well. But it’s different, even deeper, and longer-lasting.
This gentle call of Ms. Jones’ crafting speaks to many of us. But, even as it stirs my heart’s bond with my love, it echos of the words of Jesus to his closest followers as they returned from a ministry outing. They had been so buy that many of them had not even had time to eat. His call to them:
“Come away by yourselves to a desolate place and rest a while.” (Mark 6.31)
There is a deep compassion in his words as he invites them, fresh off of a journey of pouring out from their spiritual buckets, to come sit under the fountain and be refilled to overflowing. You and I, as followers of Jesus, are sent into the world day after day to love and serve and share His great grace with others. And we need, just as they, that retreat for our own souls to refill.
This passage is a more particular invitation but it is in the same spirit of Jesus’ words in Matthew 11.28:
“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”
That invite is open to all of us who are beat down by life and struggling to keep on keeping on. It is the One who loves you so much that He willfully lay down His life for you offering you the one thing you most need—soul-deep, peaceful rest.
That’s not exactly what Norah Jones was singing about. But she was describing the retreat of love that we can find in an intimate marriage relationship. And Paul taught us that this marriage thing has always been a picture of a much greater reality—the love of Jesus for His people (which Paul said comprises Jesus’ bride). So, in a way, she really was talking about this invitation.
She sings, “Come away with me.”
Jesus calls, “Come to me.”
So I want to encourage you to give a prayerful listen to this beautiful song and give thanks for the place of refuge you’ve been given—in oneness with Christ for sure, but also in intimacy with your spouse. They are connected.
Maybe it’s a good time to “come away” with the one in whom your soul finds rest.